Ananda of Seattle and Lynnwood: Feature Article--Expansive Marriage by J. Donald Walters (Swami Kriyananda) : One of the false expectations with which couples approach marriage is the fond belief that they will forever be all in all to each other. I can't imagine any two people being that to each other - unless, perhaps, they are exceptionally stupid! No one person can ever help you to learn all your lessons in life. No one person can fulfill your every need.

No one, that is, but yourself. For all the fulfillment you have ever sought awaits you within. But that kind of fulfillment is never personal....